There is no greater pleasure than looking at someone in the eye and let them look back into yours. However, this challenge is: How long can you hold that stare without your partner suddenly realize that there are better things to look at its periphery? For many couples, who are attracted to one another, wrong becomes work instead of pleasure. As a woman, to a man attracted to you alive? Here are some possible reasons why his interest might wane, and what you can do to make the flame from dying.
It is not visually titillated.
If your heart flutters with what you hear, your man's heart (and elsewhere) gets tickled what you see. It is important to take care of themselves, while in comparison. Your boyfriend may be a saint and tell you I still love you when you're 80 years, but why is he more and more interesting in these bikini ads? This is not a reason for you to run the plastic surgeon and gets her boobs done - drab to fab hairstyle change and commitment to aerobics class to tone the tummy is a big jump he will surely provide for
He reveals how ordinary you are.
Soon, he will see the pattern your clothes, you can cook meals, movies you want to see, and it will not be long until his attraction to you fading. To keep up with their fleeting tastes, do not be afraid to challenge yourself and try something new. Cook it on the kitchen has always wanted to try, but not yet. Buy clothes that are different from the usual contents of a closet and wear for a hot day. Take it on film, but this time, watch the bloody bloody action film would normally say a direct "no. "
He begins to diagnose you with "complex user"
"Honey, this is me. Get me to. Do it for me. I need to. I want to." He wants to please you, sure. But he also wants a break from all your petty requests, especially when he begins to feel that you're only in it because he's this poor, unsuspecting man you could use. It pays to be independent and be able to get what you want and need, without necessarily want your man to work for you. You will be more attractive to him when you show how much you are capable of taking care of themselves.
He can not find reasons to be maintaining a conversation.
Do you like fashion, loves video games war. He is conservative, and you're a liberal. You are in classical art, and he was in the car makes and models. This is the type of character not to complain. So it will be easy for you to pull it with you on those shopping sprees, and museum trips. But how easy it is for him to ask you to come with him in the car show, or video game conventions? If it detects that you are willing to meet their interests, he will lose that appeal to time.
He does not want to be on the receiving end.
Some guys are old-fashioned. They want to be their enemy. They were challenged by girls who play hard-to-get. In fact, all the guys want to be a reserved girl, at some point. If you make yourself too available and easy to reach, you just abating his interest in you. If you call him before he can even have the courage to call you, and if you still mothering and cuddling him, he will not reciprocate, because he simply was not more intrigued.
He's not ready to change your status, "It's Complicated ."
Every man has his commitment to the timeline. This is basically the time it takes for a man that decides he wants to be monogamous, loving relationship with someone. Until then, all the drama and complications are contraindicated. If you're dating a guy, and his appeal is clear, do not assume that he is ready to commit, and thus throw the old girl lines like "Where have you been?" or "Why do not you have been returning my calls?" Neediness is a sure shot way to stop any attraction of any man.
He does not speak the language of love.
Finally, it is a mortal sin in the dating world, say L word when you're not sure about the guy's commitment to timeline (read top up). Some girls misunderstand their fluttering hearts to love, but only impulsivity can lead to a guy slowly (or even rapidly), making exit through the back door. Just because I went to several big date and you've had an amazing sex does not mean you're supposed to be together. The best advice is to continue to wait and take things slowly.
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